Sunday, March 30, 2008
Sweet Sucre
Tuesday, March 25, 2008
Down the Road
Friday, March 21, 2008
Grandma
I just learned a few hours ago about the death of my Grandma Liechty. From what little I've gathered up to now, she died peacefully Wednesday evening. Her viewing is happening even as I write this. I wish I could be there.
This is not unexpected. I spoke with my mom and dad this past weekend and knew that she was not doing well. She was 96 and had been in declining health for a quite awhile. I'm grateful for the end of her suffering. And I'm grateful for her long and, until the last few years, very healthy life. She drove until she was 90 and lived independently until 5 years ago. And I'm grateful that she lived a life full of love, both given and received. And I'm grateful to have had a grandma that I (and the rest of my family) at times got such a kick out of!!!
It is a good, good life.
ML
Monday, March 17, 2008
Super Photographers
Kids getting ready to go to the circus:
Enrique's little cousin:
A horse on the corner:
Happy mom:
MP ML
Friday, March 14, 2008
Pampa de la Madre
The area is very troubled. The roads are poor, sanitation worse. During the rainy season the place is a fragrant swamp. During the summer it becomes very dusty due to the poor sandy soil. It is home to many large families, mostly immigrants from the altiplano. The most needy ones qualify for the comedor´s plan, kids coming in each day for lunch and before/after school programs (school is only 1/2 day in Bolivia) and the mothers learning some kind of trade.
The most pressing issue, and the most shocking one to me, is the unsustainable large size of the families. A good example: there is a young woman facing her first (and unwanted) pregnancy. She is 22. This woman`s mother, which whom she lives, has just had her 9th child. We also met a woman, who, due to deaths in her family, has almost 20 children living with her. The level of burden on these women is completely unimaginable to me ... and it´s probably the biggest contributor to continued poverty and misery in this neighborhood ... too many unwanted pregnancies.
I know I´m painting a pretty bleak picture of life in this particular area, but I`m not really sure what else to say about it. Kids are kids everywhere of course. And these kids just want people to play with them, pay attention to them, and stuff like that. To be honest, both Matt and I have found it hard at times to be at the Pampa. The level of need is very great, greater than any person or community itself could hope to satisfy. I think that there is this myth of the `happy poor person` who has nothing, but is really happy anyway, and in some sort of sanctified state. But the kind of lack we´ve seen here at the pampa has not only been a material poverty ... what`s struck me most has been the intense emotional need of these kids, many of whom will come up to random friendly people and throw themselves into their arms or onto their backs and have to be removed somewhat forcibly. These are kids who are not getting their very basic emotional needs met, and while we and people like us can swoop in for a week or four and fill tiny holes of need, the greater change in this time will be in us. It's a different world.
MP
Tuesday, March 11, 2008
Monday, March 10, 2008
Camera Project ... Futbol Weekend
On sunday, we were able to go to a futból match at Montero´s small stadium. It was packed to the rafters with fans of the local team, Guabirá. The team´s colors were red and blue, as was the smoke issuing from the less expensive, more wild sections of the stands. Before the game began, a person dressed as the devil and carying a small cauldron belching purple smoke made a quick lap of the stadium. As in the other game we´ve been to, there were numerous rockets and other explosives detonated during the game. But this game was more controversial than the last one. To begin with, the pitch was in a sorry state .. after some recent rains it resembled a swamp more than anything else, which meant that the players were covered in mud within the first few minutes. There was a considerable amount of misconduct by the players as well, resulting in several yellow and then a red card. There was also a missed call by the referee which cuased the Montero public to pelt the field with shopping bags full of water and plastic bottles. The displeasure continued and increased so that by the second half otherwise proper looking women in aprons were standing up and screaming oaths at the referee, calling him a ´cabron´ and saying his eyesight could be profitably compared to that of a pile of shit. At the end, the refs had to be escorted off of the field by a phalanx of riot police, under a hail of plastic bottles (glass was not sold at the stadium, thank god) ... But in the end, the fans of Guabirá had nothing to complain about ... they had just been out classed by a superior team (one curiously called The Strongest, from La Paz) ... but it is always more fun to complain, no?
Here are some players from Guabirá in happier days:
Tuesday, March 4, 2008
Stripping Things Away
And what really do we do here during the day even? We are really in someone else's show here, just trying to fit in wherever we can. Today we were out at the pampa de la Madre comedor (one of the two) to help with dishes and cleanup. Later I "taught" a few computer classes to some kids who didn't want to stop when it was time to go. (I have only very very basic spanish, so there was much sign language.) Both episodes were pleasurable and humbling for their own reasons. They were humbling because in each case it was clear that we are just here to be with to be in solidarity, to accompany ... our talents/gifts whatever are not what will really benefit people here. It is just our simple presence that will make a very very modest difference to a few people. The problems are so huge and the solutions so elusive that to hope for anything more than that out of a few weeks would be foolish. The pleasures of the day came once again from the people. Playing with kids on the playground at the pampa. Laughing while the twins Samuel and Manuel clung to me, each one on an arm. Lauhing with Pura, the woman in charge of the kitchen at the Pampa. Such graciousness all around.
So, no ... I would never say that Montero is much "fun" ... not much of a destination really. But for my part, I am looking at these three or so weeks as a chance to let most things just fall away amid all of the randomness, frustration and joy of this place.
MP
Monday, March 3, 2008
Comedor de Niños ´Etta Turner´
There is fun and energy everywhere. Today as lunch was being made, it was time for baseball class. Fabi, the teacher, asked me if I could tell them the rules "mas o menos". I don't think my elementary spanish was up to the task, but it was fun. Here's the baseball class in the park across the road from the Comedor.
After a while, when lunch is ready, everyone lines up to go into the dining room. (It's kind of like Holden Village in the olden days!) Fabi (in pink) is stationed at the front door checking off names (kids have to apply to enrol in the program) and handing out the daily vitamins, making sure that each one takes the pill.
Finally when everyone is seated, there are a series of prayers and spirit-raising chants, and then the eating begins. Both of us feel really honored to be even a small part of this program for the few weeks we will be here. Today Matt L did the rounds in the neighborhood in an effort to try to screen peoples' houses for lead contamination. Matt P helped with some computer stuff around the Comedor. But we have surely received much much more than the little we've given, in fact, being here for these days the one thing we've probably already learned is that we will leave this place very much the way we found it. But it's us that will be changed -- we've already received the hospitality of our housemates, the trust of so many in the community and the overwhelming warmth and love of over 100 kids, who like to ride on our backs, call our names, play soccer with us and generally just be alive. We will try to add more regularly here during the next 3 weeks or so .... until next time peace!
-MP ML